Amor, you could not be MORE WRONG.

hating is caring.
say "i hate you" if you want me to trust you.

point is i care enough to tell you i hate you doing this or that, rather than watch you do something i dont like, then hold it against you later.
we deal with things immediately. we are totally straight with everyone.

i am not full on ("contact" would be the name of the philosphy)=

there is pushing= you want something from me, we push shoulder to shoulder until you give up or i am satisfied you want what i have badly enough. very tough to explain, easy to demonstrate.

point is, i draw the line there= Hate man= you can literally push him for anything he has = make no mistake, he can push for hours and hours if the stakes are high enough.
me , ill tell you no you cant have that.

REALLY= if you learned the whole philosphy and practiced ebven [art of it, it makes life very much different and BETTER. excpet eveyone else is suddenly very lame- you start realizing how much people tlka in circles to get things instead of making a demand.
example= "hey you got an extra cigarette"
how lame is that question.
"give me a cigarette"
A HA! clear, concise. i can answer yes or no and move on with my life.

i could go on but i wont. you got to say i hate you for me to trust you.

you got to say it, you dont got to mean it. but this way if you did grow to hate me , i could feel confident you will probably tell me rather than just stab me in the back.

ps- not supposedly journalist=
Hate man had a COLUMN in the NYtimes, for a number of years.
i wont post his name as he will already be giving me a ton of shit for this.

i have thought of doing a Hate/contact web site for years, but he is against it.

we aint pushing the hate thing, its only for people who come up and ask, and he is afraid of people misunderstnding and wanting to put an end to what he does.
REally= if everyone in the world did the hate thing, wow would we have a great planet

Looks like someone made a movie of hate man. I saw him interviewed on T.V. once, in like a documentary. They interviewed his mom, who basically said that he suffers from mental illness. He did work for the NYT. There was a pic of him as a young man in the documentary..


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